> Many people feel that they are in love when they are really only infatuated, but love and *infatuation are quite different.
> First, infatuation happens suddenly, while love takes root and grows slowly over time.
> Second, infatuation is accompanied by a sense of uncertainty; one feels greatly thrilled but not really happy.
> Love, on the other hand, begins with a feeling of security; the person is warmed by a sense of being near even when the person he or she loves is away.
> Third, infatuation tells us to "get married right away." Meanwhile, love advises: "Don't rush into anything; learn to trust each other." These are important differences.
> Unfortunately, too many people overlook them and get hurt in the end.
